• Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    6 hours ago

    Sometimes you need a little more fulfillment, the same way you need sunlight and sleep. Going and volunteering for a couple of hours a week will give you all kinds of feel good chemicals and be its own motivation to continue once you start. I enjoy volunteering outdoors because its typically more chill and I’m killing like, three birds with one stone by volunteering outside with physical labor (exercise!).

    • LemmyFeed@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      4 hours ago

      I once volunteered for about a year doing a 3d printer lab at a library. It quickly became a commitment that I would dread every other Sunday and it burned me out so I had to stop. It put me off from wanting to volunteer again. I’m generally a helpful person and don’t mind sharing my time with others, but the work like commitment really ruined it for me. Maybe if I didn’t have a full time job it might have been more enjoyable.

      Or maybe I’m actually an awful person that lied to myself about my ability to be generous. Idk.

      • Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        4 hours ago

        You’re not a bad person for not being able to keep up with it! It’s literally unpaid labor. The key is finding volunteer work that doesn’t feel like work and leaves you energized after you’re done with it. For you that wasn’t helping out with 3D printing, that doesn’t mean there’s nothing you can volunteer for that’s fulfilling to you.

      • baines@lemmy.cafe
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        3 hours ago

        nope, it’s just most people are trash, the disadvantaged included

        i volunteered for the homeless for a few years and while many were good people, plenty were not