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    Back when I was a kid, they’d judge your kid and give you whatever they thought corresponded to the kid’s genitalia. Even when I heard my mother ask for a car toy I’d end up with a Barbie.

    Being constantly disappointed by Barbie toys may have been my first hint I wasn’t a girl.

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      Boys can like barbies too. We can acknowledge that gender stereotyping kid’s interests was wrong, while acknowledging that their interests don’t always define their gender.

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      That was me, too. I ended up just tossing this whole gender concept out.

      I have to say, the hot wheels were hot wheels and the Barbies were ugly statues. One was superior.

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    I would say what I want, but I would get banned because the mods are prejudiced against the nature of my mental illness which directly impacts the content of of character. I love all of you. I’ll just sit on this park bench and cry because I’m an inferior that cannot play by the rules. That’s the nature of being schizoaffective. I am capricious af, and thus in social media, I am subhuman to most people by default.

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    “Please select the toy whose attributes are more likely to statistically correlate with the reproductive caste demographic which has been labeled ‘male’ by the consensus of Homo Sapiens who speak English.”

    “Ma’am do you think a college educated sociologist would work at a fast food drive-thru?”

    “In this economy? Absolutely, yes.”

    “…”

    “…”

    “…okay fair, I’ll put the toy car in the bag.”

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      Some McDs will sell just the toys. Ita been a bit since I bought one but they are probably like $2 for a toy only. Also you will have to wait while the employee tries to figure out where the hidden menu button is that has “Toy only.”

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    This is the person who also throws a bitch fit when a video game asks them if they want body type a or b in the character creator.

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      I think it may actually be company policy not to do do this, at least for some time. Because they don’t want to get in trouble for assuming.

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      I would argue with ma boss “i don’t know which is supposed to be a boy toy to be honest, we only have hot wheels and barbies”

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    I want a boy toy

    Well, good news, I asked each toy their pronouns and neither responded, so I guess the meds are working. Now, do you want a hot wheels or a barbie?

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    Those people will eventually grow old and die while their children grow up to be slightly less conservative (on average).

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      That is unfortunately not how anything works. These people were young as well once, and that didn’t stop them from becoming conservative.

      • 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.world
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        not sure whi said this

        Society doesn’t change when new ideas are brought up, Society changes when old people die.

        It was fucking Max Plank!!!

        A new scientific truth does not triumph by convincing its opponents and making them see the light, but rather because its opponents eventually die and a new generation grows up that is familiar with it …

        Close enough

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            Different for each person. Very early if indoctrinated, like religion or peer culture. Some catch it when they transition to working life or overall success and catch the I got mine disease. I’d say it grows fairly early, teens at the latest, and solidifies early 20s. The I got mine crowd can happen late, like 30-40.

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            Generally the age when they start to feel overwhelming fear of change and the unfamiliar. Exposure therapy is probably the best cure.

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    My boy is really into cars by default, which is funny since I’d 100% be down with Barbies, too. Daughter though, she just wants Legos and jigsaw puzzles… at age 4. She’s just not into gendered stuff, she just wants to build.

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    hot wheels are cooler than barbie no matter what gender you are and i need not elaborate any further

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    You know what she means, just give her the car and be done with it, take your entitled world improvement bullshit elsewhere.

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          The customer is implying that it is obvious between a barbie and a hot wheels which is gendered for boys. So instead of saying which toy they want, they are expecting the employee to identify which is for boys. It’s a subtle way of reinforcing gender binary and societal expectations of what is “appropriate” for children to want to play with.