I daily drove Linux for about 6 years and finally managed to convince some of my family members to try it!
However, I realized I don’t have a lot of ideas about beginner distros. I have some requirements that led me to some decisions, but there doesn’t seem to be a fit-all option:
- Minimal maintenance -> Debian-based (stable release)
- High compatibility -> Debian-based (.deb seems more convenient than say, AUR)
- Familiarity -> KDE Plasma (looks like Windows, very customizable)
It’s for a Thinkpad X1. The main purpose is going to be academics.
All of that points to Kubuntu, but I worry about the Canonical Snap store stuff.
Everyone recommends Linux Mint for starters, but it doesn’t come with a KDE Plasma flavour. I know I can install it myself, but the integration is gonna be bad and they’re gonna bug me a lot.
I use Endeavour OS personally, so I’m somewhat familiar with Arch-based system. I guess .debs can be installed with debtap, but that feels like a whole another hacky solution. I have done university courses with my Endeavour OS laptop and I know quite a bit of software comes in .deb but not AUR.
What should I pick for them? And should I get more input from them? If so, what should I ask about?


If you’re worried about them bugging you, it might happen regardless.
Cinnamon is fine enough for a “fire and forget” installation, and comes with user friendly enough guardrails. Part of the ease of use is due to Cinnamon based settings.
If you’re hellbent on KDE for them, why not just install KDE, and uninstall cinnamon? Whichever KDE flavoured OS you choose is going to have the KDE settings and get them to reach out to you if they don’t get it.
You might also be able to set up a login manager that lets you choose the UI, and just leave both on there. Try setting it up like that on Gnome Boxes and see if they can manage either UI or if you can manage to set it up that way.
I’m aware I will be bugged, just hopefully not as much. KDE is not a must, I just have a general good time using the DE, and I believe they would like it too. My main worries about replacing the DE myself is that the integration will not be as great and there can be more annoying stuff coming out of that.
just stick to LMDE and cinnamon.