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Cake day: July 21st, 2024

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  • Kinda sounds like you might feel at home in the polyamory community.

    Lots of people who aren’t “in it” don’t have that sort of energy

    I have a hard time imagining telling my wife that “I’m not comfortable” with her doing something she wants to do unless it is something outright dangerous.

    Its just a matter of boundaries and agreements really. Most mono couples have an implied set of rules rather than customising their relationship experience by doing the work to define boundaries together. Very much a societal thing i think.

    Whether or not you were planning on swinging, that option is now in Wills head and he’s afraid Janet might participate.

    In the end it’s just jealousy, but most people struggle with that emotion some times, no matter their relationship type.









  • Thats what i mean, we just don’t know. I want to believe that he’s not the guy but i won’t act like its a fact.

    Could be that he wanted to get the evidence out of town to dispose it. Could be that hes a dummy. Could be that police is planting it all on a rando that some grampa called in.

    We dont fuckin know.



  • So the whole “perfect crime” I don’t get.
    They tracked a lot of his movement via street cameras by now, so while he did a really good job, he’s also not infallible. He left behind his backpack with a jacket and the monopoply money which is hilarious but incredibly risky. They did also pull some trash and a phone he may have dropped right?
    there’s also a world where maybe he’s either a rich kid with a sense of self-righteousness and just wants to get his manifesto out, OR where he’s a bumbling idiot, or mentally unstable even, which would lead to irrationable moves like keeping the suppressor and gun on him.
    There are so many variables to this, it’s silly to immediately put on the tinfoil hat.

    See what develops, see the facts present themselves as this goes on, and draw a logical conclusion once there’s enough.