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  • 1ostA5tro6yne@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneRule
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    2 months ago

    funny thing, i haven’t had to fix my wife’s computer once since i got her to switch to manjaro nearly a year ago. when she was on windows i had to help her fix something at least once a month.

    funnier thing, the guy at the shop probably uses linux and knows how to fix that too.









  • nah, i’m blazing right past that and accepting everyone’s identity as valid, the opinion is it’s hilarious and entertaining watching pedants twist themselves in knots to absolve themselves of fundamentally queerphobic and exclusionary takes.

    you can equate “accept everyone” with “scrutinize and judge” if you like though, it’s very helpful when people wave their red flags openly.





  • bruh you’ve been mad phobic the entire time you’ve been concern trolling here, and it’s painfully obvious because every single time you preface it with “trans people aren’t [bad quality]… but you are” as if to admonish us for not being “the good ones”. truth told at this point i’m mostly just seeing how much reportable shit i can get you to say because it’s clear you just came here to stir the pot.



  • “directionless wad of animosity crying victim and living for dramatic horseshit just to make other people feel lesser” seems more appropriate but sure you can choose the “violent transphobic bigot” label if you prefer. unlike some other people i’m not in a hurry to decide whose identity is and isn’t valid based on how shitty i think they act, or color a person’s entire existence a certain way based on a handful of internet comments.



  • HRT be like 5 years later, still zero difference

    it’ll totally happen sooner or later, no you don’t need to work on self-acceptance at all just take pills until the thing you want just comes to you and keep comparing yourself to extreme outliers until then

    can we talk about how fucking toxic it is that the norm in trans communities is to build up a bunch of expectations around HRT? like I’ve almost lost someone because their result weren’t aligning with the hype, and I have no small amount of baggage related to the same. we need to stop with the “hrt is literal magic” crap and start being honest.


  • Your identity doesn’t shield you from being a bigot though, or from twisting yourself in terflike knots to justify misgendering others.

    It’s very strange how many professed nonbinary, fluid, and agender people suddenly have an issue with gatekeeping what gender is or isn’t and whose is worth acknowledging based on arbitrary criteria and narratives about personal virtue.