Welcome to the club of late diagnosis, got mine + meds in January this year at 34 years old, even though my doctor’s notes from my childhood all very clearly pointed to ADHD but my dad doesn’t believe in psychology (and didn’t want to accept that his kid is “insane” as he put it :D)
Sure, but this observation assumes I am a smart man. I might not be.
Pheromone vaporizators work wonders. Just make sure to pre-emptively set it up like 2 weeks prior. Not magic, but helps massively in my experience. Might help with your resident cat’s anxiety long term, too.
I would not under any circumstances do the introduction of a new cat during a move or shortly after, as you said, it will just add to the stress of the resident cat and prolong the process needlessly.
On top of that, best way I have found is have the kitten in one room, and every day introduce the kitten’s smell to the new cat. Smells are incredibly important for cats.
Take it slow, do short controlled “shows” for the resident cat, show the kitten far away, don’t let it too close too quickly, that’s when defense kicks in and it prolongs the process.
Overall, be patient, go slow, don’t force interactions, pay close mind to body language. Majority of cats will get a long as long as the introduction is done properly, and on their terms. How long it takes is highly dependent on the individual cats and their tempers. From your post, it could be on the longer end of the spectrum.
Have a worst case scenario planned out before making any choices. If it seems like there’s no way, you will have to accept that as well, and be ready to rehome the kitten.
This is a good video about the subject: https://youtu.be/tsYT7yIOdqQ Jackson Galaxy is a weird dude, but he does know cats.
Seems nice so far. Wayland works better than in 12, but still has issues with nvidia drivers + KDE Plasma combo. Some software (Signal desktop, discord at least) have a really annoying flickering going on, and toggling Vsync on/off crashes any software that tries it. Swapped to X11 instead, and it works like a charm.
Thanks for the suggestion, bookmarked, will have a gander if I get stuck!
Oh yeah, I was thinking about that today, too; get a “for most stuff” distro as the baremetal, and VM specialist distros (like Kali or something) on top of it when needed.
I will definitely check out KVM at some point! I was just gonna chuck VBox at it, but your salespitch convinced me to try at it. Been mostly working with Azure and ESXi for the past 10 years, had no idea KVM was so advanced now, I saw something about it back in the day, but it was a tech demo -level back then.
Thank you kindly for the insight!
Aye, audio latency was a big question I didn’t find a good answer for during my research period. It is a headache on Windows as well.
You do make a really good point I didn’t think about the immutables for music stuff. Cheers for that.
Does the dickish attitude come with the package or is it extra? So sorry for asking questions after being out the scene for a bit, glad to see nothing’s changed in the past 20 years.
Thanks for the alternative take. Good to know that Fedora supports Flatpak that easily.
Blender has a video editor?! Geez, used it back in the day for 3D rendering, but didn’t even cross my mind for videos. Inkscape is a great idea!
Had a couple of recommendations for Ardour from other folks as well, will have to give it a go. Free is free after all.
Games fortunately I have the most experience with lately, was in another country with my ancient T530, and was bored, so did some gaming on Ubuntu, got mostly everything working pretty quickly.
Cheers for the music points. I got some pointers, that Nobara is great for music stuff, and Bazzite can be optimized for it, but takes some effort and fiddling. I gotta take a look at Ardour and Bitwig, see if I vibe with them. How are they with older (my keyboard is around 2010 I believe) MIDI devices, do you happen to have experience?
Thanks for the POV. Mint I tried back when it was step up from Damn Small Linux, like early 2000’s, no clue how it is now. I’ll keep it in mind.
I got interested in the immutable concept, since it wasn’t a thing back when I was more of a linux user, and I’ve gotten lazy and burnt out on fixing my OS when I just want to do something fun. But you do make a good point of sacrificing flexibility, and I might get annoyed at that later.
Sorry mate, not what I’m looking for.
I’d like my main recreational machine & distro to be low maintenance, I get to fix linux servers at work enough already, I don’t want to bring that home.
Cheers mate, never even heard of Kinoite, I was looking at KDE Plasma, but had some annoyance about it, can’t remember what. I’ll look into it for sure.
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