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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • Meine Muttersprache ist Englisch und fast jedes mal, wenn ich das deutsche Wort suche, ist es vom Englischen ableitbar. Daher rate ich jetzt meistens, was generell gut funktioniert.

    Aber meine Chefin dachte, dass ich voll blöd war, nachdem ich „Drachenfliege” und „Summenvogel” am gleichen Tag sagte. Ich hab auch mehrere Varianten von „Geleefisch“ und „Cnidar“ ausprobiert, bevor ich endlich an Spanisch gedacht habe und Medusa sagte. „Qualle“ hätte ich aber nie im leben geraten.




  • Having a 9-5 is such a trap for me. I excel as a waiter or barista, where I can manage lots of high priority/low importance tasks (I’ve been in customer service too long to really consider anything that happens in a cafe important, unless something’s on fire. The other important thing would be serving someone unsafe food, but I don’t fuck around with food safety), but just can’t make myself do low priority/high importance tasks with any regularity. I used to have a job where I was legally required to do things within 30/60/90 days and I regularly pulled all nighters to make up for weeks of inaction.

    I would really like to earn more money than customer service yields, but it’s hard to find something that fits. I’ve started teaching, which is new and therefore not a problem, but I can already tell that I’ll let corrections go longer than I should once the shine of teaching wears off








  • I’ve got good fine motor control, which means that I can sew, knit, roll a joint, braid hair, make a pastry, seal a dumpling, fold origami, draw, sculpt, paint nails, pick a lock, and most other fine dexterity tasks, excluding musical instruments.

    This sounds like bragging, but I didn’t do anything to earn the ability to do this, I literally just do it and it works. I’m not proud of it (though I’m occasionally proud of the things I can craft) and I don’t think anyone else is unskilled because it doesn’t work when they do it.



  • The world should follow Canada’s lead and nobody should visit from anywhere.

    I’m American living in Germany and married to a German. I brought him to meet my family last November, because I suspected trump would win or there would be a more significant version of January 6th. People keep asking when we’re coming back, but why the hell would I endanger my husband like that? It’s simply not safe for anyone right now, but especially for noncitizens.

    I miss my family and friends, but they can come visit us. We’ll even help them get started learning German and help with their visas and housing if they want to stay.