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  • Derpenheim@lemmy.ziptoCurated Tumblr@sh.itjust.worksLiving my dream
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    16 days ago

    -Listens to what he means when he is speaking -Pays attention to his nonverbal cues about his emotional state -Respects his boundaries and only assists him in expanding them, not demanding he do so -Rewards him for engaging in new healthy behaviours that he finds uncomfortable

    Fellas, is it being an asshole for checks notes engaging with your partner?



  • I think it’s fun to remember the context in which Tolkien wanted the books to be read. These aren’t stories told in the moment, they are tales captured from ages ago and being retold via unreliable narrators and half truths. These make them subject to retcon, omission, and exaggeration. Approaching these stories as one would a cultural anthropologic expedition is exactly the point.




  • Derpenheim@lemmy.ziptoWorld News@lemmy.worldPutin Won
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    2 months ago

    I’m glad to see this perspective. I live in America, and I thought surely the rest of the world doesn’t see it like this. We are out, and of our own god damn volition. But that doesn’t mean Putin won. If anything, weakening America so much just means our government couldn’t possibly come to his aid in any meaningful way when the European countries inevitably have to put him in his place.